"Yell 'FIRE' instead of 'HELP'"
The logic seems sound: people ignore cries for help (bystander effect), but everyone comes running to see a fire. So if you're in danger, yell "FIRE!" instead of "HELP!" to get attention.
This advice has been repeated for decades. It's also based on a flawed understanding of human behavior.
Why This Advice Backfires
- People look for fire, not you. When someone yells "FIRE," witnesses scan for smoke and flames — not for a person being attacked. Their attention goes to the wrong thing.
- It confuses the situation. When there's no fire, people don't know what's happening. Confusion delays response. Clear communication gets faster help.
- It may drive people away. The instinct when hearing "FIRE" is often to evacuate, not investigate. You might scatter the very witnesses who could help.
- 911 operators need accurate information. If someone calls 911 reporting a fire, they'll send the fire department. You need police.
- The bystander effect isn't what you think. Research shows direct, specific requests ("You in the blue shirt — call 911!") are far more effective than any word choice.
Clever but counterproductive.
This advice tries to hack human psychology but ends up creating confusion instead of clarity. In an emergency, clarity saves lives.
What Actually Works
Be direct. Be specific. Be loud.
- Point at someone specific: "You — call 911 right now!"
- Describe what's happening: "Help! This man is attacking me!"
- Give instructions: "Someone call the police! I need help!"
- Create witnesses: Make eye contact. Point. Engage people directly.
- Repeat and escalate: Don't assume one shout is enough.
The bystander effect is real, but it's beaten by direct engagement, not misdirection. When you point at someone and give them a specific task, you break through diffusion of responsibility.
You don't need tricks. You need volume, clarity, and directness.
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